Learning to "We"

Something that I've become more conscious of lately is in using the language "we". Being a long-time couple, H and I had long adopted the "we"-ness long ago but after getting engaged, you start getting a lot more questions where the "we" comes out. It's a delicate balance since I don't want to speak on H's behalf, but at the same time, we've been together long enough that I feel very confident about knowing what we do and do not agree on and so, in some situations, "we" is appropriate and shows solidarity. I'm sure it's something that we'll figure out with time, but for now it's something we are still getting used to.

(See, I did it again!)